Does anyone know where I’m can find cute bra/bralette and pantie sets? I really want cute comfy matching sets and the only place I’ve found is warriorsandscholars.com and they have like no stock.

Any help is appreciated!

Thanks

♡♡♡Nissa♡♡♡

  • Courtney (she/her/they) @lemmy.blahaj.zoneEnglish
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    9 days ago

    All u need to do is push the “stuff” down so it’s like horizontal and underneath if u get what I mean. No tape tucking required! U will get used to the feeling of this kind of “tucking” with time, and honestly at this point I feel uncomfortable when I’m not tucked down there.

    I have a bit of a personal question, so PLEASE feel free to not answer:

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    Are you on hrt? I have been having a lot of dysphoria surrounding my bulge day-to-day (not out, still boy mode unless I’m in my section of the house) and some of the underwear I’ve tried are either meant for “showers” that can tuck fully underneath without fear of shrinkage, or smaller ladies/people on hrt who are small enough to “push in” if you will.

    I’m a grower, not on hrt (yet) and almost nothing short of taping has worked more than about half an hour, except a single pair of panties I have that’s a little too small in the legs for my thighs. And taping every day is not only expensive but probably also not healthy for everything. Tape keeps it all smooth and in place. The underwear leaves enough space that the girls shift around and cause a bulge to appear and I can not only feel it but I can see it every time I step even if nobody else notices.

    So I’ve been on the lookout for something to help me out there.

    • Sophienomenal@lemmy.blahaj.zoneEnglish
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      9 days ago

      I’ve been on HRT since January 15th, 2024, but I started wearing my LeoLines before HRT. I am also very much a “grower”, but I’ve never really had problems with stuff moving around in my LeoLines. It’s a compression garment, so it keeps things in place pretty well, and the added padding helps smooth things out underneath so it looks smooth. The only problems I had before with moving around were mostly due to spontaneous events, which no longer happen to me on HRT (thankfully; that was the worst). I ofc can’t guarantee that it will work for everyone, but they worked beautifully for me. I just recommend going the breifs option instead of bikini, bc its easier to keep things in place, and when I sleep, I do move stuff back up bc I sweat a lot there if I don’t and it gets uncomfortable.

      • Courtney (she/her/they) @lemmy.blahaj.zoneEnglish
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        9 days ago

        Thank you so much for replying, I hope I didn’t make you uncomfortable with the question or it’s phrasing.

        I’m glad to hear it should be better than what I currently have!

        • Sophienomenal@lemmy.blahaj.zoneEnglish
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          9 days ago

          Oh don’t worry, I’m fine talking abt it to help out another trans woman! Also, I had 0 problem whatsoever being asked if I were on HRT (I’m very happy about my journey with HRT, but I know it’s a touchy subject for some folks). I will say to make sure you measure hips and such for sizing, and use the LeoLines sizing chart, as they aren’t standard sizes (I’m usually a women’s small, but was an extra small in LeoLines). And yeah, they’re expensive. I forked out the money to buy 10 pairs, and the only regret I have is that 4 of them were bikini, and I definitely prefer the breifs. They’re machine washable with delicates and hang dry. They’ve held up really well for the 2ish years I’ve had them!

          Also, I will say that I had issues with it not lasting when I used regular panties (not LeoLines). Wearing 2 panties layered helped a bit, but I still had to readjust occasionally. LeoLines are set and forget for me. The only time anything comes untucked is when I either take them off (like when I have to use the restroom) or when I purposefully move stuff (like I do right before I sleep to give my stuff the time to not be sweaty lol)

          • Courtney (she/her/they) @lemmy.blahaj.zoneEnglish
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            9 days ago

            Yeah, I know a couple women who don’t like talking about their current situation, so I try to be respectful of others boundaries.

            I took a quick look at their page and I like what I see, and it’s not much more than I was expecting to spend honestly.

            In the morning I will have to go do some measurements, I am woefully neglecting my sleep…

            Thanks for the response!