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    3 months ago

    it’s actually the other way around. pornhub makes my gut wrench from how bad the quality is. xvideos is mostly smut but has some good stuff.

    edit: i should clarify. it’s not entirely true what i said. but pornhub tends to have “commercial” porn which is mostly from the US and is reaaaaly bad. they treat women worse than cattle in a slaughterhouse. if you look at stuff from asia in general (china / japan), you see the difference in quality. amateur stuff is also mostly good because people are in it voluntarily, instead of because they need money.

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      3 months ago

      chinese / japanese porn actresses are treated with more dignity than american starbucks employees.

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      people are in it voluntarily

      That’s an assumption. Plenty of “amateur” producers are still in bad situations. There was the recent OF scandal of pimps forcing girls to produce content. There’s private recordings that were made in good faith and later publicly distributed (i.e. revenge porn.) There’s women that posted on Reddit when they were 19, and now that they’re 25 they can’t seem to scrub the pictures off the net. If you’re looking at a real live person, there’s a non-zero chance that they don’t love that you’re looking.

      I’m not saying don’t look at pornography. Just don’t take it for granted that anything you find was ethically sourced. The only assuredly ethical choice for cranking your hog is what the real freaks post to AO3.

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        The only assuredly ethical choice for cranking your hog is what the real freaks post to AO3.

        yeah i get that. also comics, as it doesn’t involve a real person. also, what’s AO3?

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      2 months ago

      turning your back on God, it is literally a satanic portal in your house

      Would l it also have any negative effects on my life?

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      If God is real then he a freak, imagine the billions of people he watch masturbate or fuck. God is the biggest porn watcher of them all

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      You know, I bet you could hate yourself and others on Truth Social just as much as you do here, so why don’t you head back there where you can give everything you own to some prosperity gospel scammer or gold smartphone bullshit or whatever else you “too straight to fuck women” assholes do.

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      Second it, but I’m not keen on explaining that through God or hell.

      Any addiction leaves you in a miserable state. Porn is just the cheapest one.

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      Been married for 24 years. Both of us watch porn and sometimes together. We have 2 awesome kids and are very happy. My wife’s libido Is lower than mine and she rather I get off than have her do something she doesn’t want to do. When is this divorce thing going to happen?

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        The problem is as usual, besides the religious rambling, they have a point. But no difference is made between anything. No nuance.

        E.g. Porn addiction is real and ruins marriages, but… porn helps other marriage to open up and revitalise their sex life.

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        A few years back they deleted all content that wasn’t verified in an effort to protect minors and ensure there was no content from a minor. Essentially now it’s only the free videos OF creators make and the free videos all the big production companies offer for free to get you to subscribe to their paid sites.

        It is definitely worse than it was but I guess it was for a good reason.

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          That’s badly simplifying things. I mean, think about it- do you really think the only people involved in porn that ate victimized are kids? Maybe you just aren’t aware of the number of women who are forced, often literally, into that industry? Not to mention revenge porn and the like.

          Yes, the quality took a dive, but if it helped to reduce the number of videos showing an involuntary participant, I’m all for it.