Or any lesson for that matter
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That worrying about things outside of my control is entirely pointless. And that in the vast majority of cases, things turn out fine.
Things have been turning out Not Fine for frigging years now. Do you honestly think climate change will miraculously fix itself?
I was thinking on a way less global scale. Like people getting home safely, recovering from illness etc
Circle of Influence vs. Circle of Concern.
Put all your effort into the things in the former category because, however hard you try, you can’t influence the things in the latter one.
True in many cases, or maybe most of the time, but the way things are going, there really are a load of existential things at work to be both aware of, wary of, and take precautions against.
These are not the ‘simple times’ of even 20yrs ago.
People hate to receive unsolicited advice, however useful or well-meant it is. By all means offer, but don’t force the issue if it’s declined.
And don’t say ‘I told you so’ if things end up going south, however tempting it might be.
That I fucking need to pay attention to these lessons
That I need to keep it simple.
I tend to make things overcomplicated.
You’re not going to want to do it later. It will just pile up until it’s unmanageable.
I do want to do it later. I prefer to clean in the morning. So I just go to bed and do in in the morning.
My standards will drop (again), and it will no longer need to be done. EZ
That it’s safe for me to be seen as I am, and I need to show up vulnerably and imperfectly in order to move forward in life.
I struggle with rsd and anxiety among other things, and instead of learning this lesson I keep hiding away and not actually living.
Not taking for granted what I actually have. I constantly fail to live in the moment. I always seek more. Never satisfied with what I have. And I say I want a long term partner. lmao
How to spell guarantee
guarana tea
I like him cause he treats me just as shitty as my mom did and it feels comfortable
could be worse. you could just not like how any treats you.
6 beers max
No shots
A lot of how I feel is normal and I don’t have to belittle myself for feeling how I do.
I don’t understand why people care so much about what other people look like.
I’ll never get it. But I don’t think I’ve ever met someone who didn’t like obsesses over their ‘look’ and go off about how other people are horrible for not looking they way think they should.
and I kind of lose all respect for people who go on their little rants about fashion, or teeth, or haircuts or any of that, especially when they like use it to boost their own ego how they don’t wear crocs or something, it’s so weird and petty and gross.
The only time I care is when they should be old enough to dress appropriately and they choose not to
“Be more quiet and mysterious this time”
Limited edition/novelty snack flavors are never good. No matter how many mediocre snacks I’ve had to finish over the years I never learn my lesson.
