if you don’t magically have the funds to leave your domestic abuse then dont document it on the internet or ask for emotional support / leaving an abusive boyfriend is 100% intellectual and if you’re emotionally struggling to do it you are WEAK (“leave him or leave us out of it”)

  • Maeve @lemmygrad.ml
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    21 days ago

    I think it’s just not exposing yourself and raw wounds to the possibility of them being exploited /abused for manipulation.

    Do you have a friend who can care for your pet?

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    19 days ago

    it’s part of the general attitude so prevalent now, that you can do anything if you just work hard and put your mind to it! No-one can ever accept that some people just can’t change their situation, or need a lot of support to do so. It’s just pure toxic positivity. And so, if you don’t change your situation, you are to blame for the situation in the minds of these people. Even therapy is like this. One of the worst aspects of our current society IMO.

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    21 days ago

    I see people suffer all the time and I can barely take it. If someone is in domestic abuse, I wish the best for them, and I suppose I could say something in support, but it’s hard for me considering everything else.