I agree with orc girly. I also think your wife does have some very week reasoning from what you have said, but I don’t think that partners should be entitled to sex. I think you probably have some issues of your own if your blaming your depression on your wife not wanting to have sex with you.
I wrote in a haste. I didnt mean my depression is exclusively caused by lack of sex, but that relationship problems are a contributing factor. I have then edited the original comment.
You say that based on what? For seven years I politely asked her to have more healthy frequency, to have reasonable variation, for her to see a gynecologist about her physical problems, and to have psychotherapy for her brutal headaches as neurologist had prescribed. The psychotherapy would also benefit our marriage. I long had therapy myself and made an effort to be a good husband. After seven years I finally told her in tougher terms that our marriage was not good. The therapy has already made good benefit. The brutal headaches are gone. The fights too.
My whole point is that prejudiced people pontificate about the reality of couples they never met and know nothing about.
I agree with orc girly. I also think your wife does have some very week reasoning from what you have said, but I don’t think that partners should be entitled to sex. I think you probably have some issues of your own if your blaming your depression on your wife not wanting to have sex with you.
I wrote in a haste. I didnt mean my depression is exclusively caused by lack of sex, but that relationship problems are a contributing factor. I have then edited the original comment.
Maybe you should try being a partner instead of a “boss.”
You say that based on what? For seven years I politely asked her to have more healthy frequency, to have reasonable variation, for her to see a gynecologist about her physical problems, and to have psychotherapy for her brutal headaches as neurologist had prescribed. The psychotherapy would also benefit our marriage. I long had therapy myself and made an effort to be a good husband. After seven years I finally told her in tougher terms that our marriage was not good. The therapy has already made good benefit. The brutal headaches are gone. The fights too.
My whole point is that prejudiced people pontificate about the reality of couples they never met and know nothing about.
I was talking about the meme. I didn’t know what you were on about. My apologies.
OK, thank you for reading more carefully! I am a bit emotional too.
I understand. Thank you for your generosity.