I will start by saying I have toyed with posting this because as soon as someone says they don’t wanna see it, someone will make a community for it. However I feel like some of the stuff that makes Reddit annoying is creeping over. And just because I don’t like it does not mean its not a valid community. So if it is least put in the right place (rather that the bigger generic communities) I can then just filter or block it.
Ill start I don’t want to see
- Am I the arsehole
- Relationship drama
- Celebrity worship/drama
So what communities DON’T you want to see here?
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Communities that are about actively looking for things to get mad at. Cringe, lolcows, ragebait, etc. It’s not healthy and it quickly devolves into bullying.
that’s the majority of what drives people’s engagement on the entire internet.
the most angry folks are the most engaged and produce the most content. and bullying is the point.
selling crack is the best way to get quick buck! The most desperate folk are the ones you get the most money from. And getting them addicted and dependent on you is the point.
fuck ‘engaging’ to ‘content’ though
The +200 of them that I have blocked.
Actual Republican spaces. They can stay the fuck on Reddit and Twitter.
Republican oxygen can stay on some other planet.
Sports communities.
I hate how many pop up post 3 things a day for a month then disappear. Bloats the hell out of my block list.
You realize sports communities usually keep to themselves. Oh no your block list it’s bloated. Sounds like it’s working
I wasn’t trying to have a dig or offend communities. We all have very valid interests that others dislike. Please don’t take it personal. I am often told i am blunt so this is meant with a lighthearted intent, and see it more as a conversation rather than a negative.
Says me that states in the OP that i ‘hate…’
Until one team losses and the winning team starts tolling or bridging the losing team, or there is a sport ball event and its plastered everywhere, or someone is banned from world so they make a new community on zip or piefed or db0.
Yep so hard to scroll past. Wow there’s a lot of butthurt people here
Lol I sub to two sports subs. I don’t see any others on lemmy in my feed and even the ones I’m subbed to barely show up
It’s because someone thinks “My team can have a community here!” And they try, they post stuff and try to get the fans together to talk about the team and sport they love.
But if there’s minimal engagement, they eventually give up.
It’s definitely discouraging. Getting to the point that the median post on !nwsl@lemmy.world was above zero took like 2-3 years – I’m not surprised the vast majority of posters don’t slog through.
For over a year it was only me posting in !womenshockey@reddthat.com with almost no interaction.
I started following the nwsl because of your post’s and community. I do not have time to watch games, but I b dope among because of you.
Wow thanks for posting about this. I recently got into it since the spirit are local to me.
things that could bring the server under investigation for illegal activities.
otherwise, I can block them.
Looking and other replies, I don’t agree that this post has to have to do with technical solutions to what we don’t want to see here. Obviously we can block what we don’t want to see, so that’s not even a question I find engaging. Instead, I’ll make my response about what communities used to annoy me over at Reddit and why.
- Grooming subs, subs that generate and/or distribute CSAM, ban evasion subs (hopefully I don’t need to give reasons for this one. If you want reasons, ask).
- White supremacist subs, because I’m leftist and I hate to see the otherization and demonization of marginalized people that they foster.
- Big tech offshoots like r/TikTokCringe because I went to Reddit to get away from them before it went shit, news subs like r/news because if I want watch or read the news I go to my own sources, braindead slop like r/LivestreamFail because they’re already available over at Meta’s toilets and TikTok if I wanted to have anything to do with them.
Reddit used to have r/picsofdeadkids. I’m probably ok without that one.
I think there was a sub that was called /r/jailbait as well.
The fact that Reddit became mainstream after all that vile shit thriving on that platform is nothing short of insane.
They were both created and moderated by violentacrez.
any sub rewriting history.
I wish people would limit US politics to comms designated for that, rather than forcing the rest of us to wade through that filth looking for world news. It’s already all over every other news source.
Lemmy is my only news source LOL
Top stories tonight on the Meme O’clock News…
Keyword filters work pretty well for this. I have keyword filters for Trump, Musk, Boebert, RFK, and I couldn’t give a flying fuck about if Mitch McConnell is dead or not.
Yeah, I have keywords for the usual suspects as well, but that requires them to be mentioned by name in the title, and it doesn’t cover US politics not involving those.
God damn I know, like you can’t even escape it even in meme communities. The worst is the meme community posts that are literally just news posts in screenshot form. I don’t fucking care, how is a screenshot of something an American politician said on Facebook or Twitter funny?
the political people here will argue with you how the shape of your poo is a political act and determines your ‘team’.
for a lot of people US politics is the only thing that gives their life meaning.
I don’t care because I can just block the community.
I use voyager webapp and blocking a community takes 3 seconds:
- you are in the „All“-tab
- you see a community you want to never see again
- you don’t have to enter the post or community, simply press and hold the community
- tap „block community“
This is the way. Everybody has different interests, that is what “subscribed” is for. I have no interest in Anime, Sports and Porn, but do I think people with those interests shouldn’t be here? No.
Love how the top comment is off topic. Classic Reddit
The question op asked is a legitimate one, and I deliver the solution to the whole problem. Instead of being frustrated from communities I can simply block them.
I do block and I’m getting better at it.
What’s prompted the question for me has been:
Relationship drama in ask lemmy
Celebrity crap in newsThat’s just 2 there has been more. In R they would have been in defined spaces that I ignore. Here people don’t know where to put them so it’s usually a generic but common community. This has had me thinking what do I hope does not start appearing.
Still curious though. what one community DON’T you want to see here? Unlease your gripe, we all have them.
Fuck no, I DO wanna see the Lemmy flavor of AM I THE ASSHOLE!
We’re all a bunch of older tech guys who regret how pro tech we were in the 00s or younger zoomers tryna “detox” from classic social media… or russian bots and creepy eastern europeans trying to convince be Black Arch should be my new daily driver. I WANT to see how you’re the asshole there!
Like my god, imagine it. Imagine the kinds of things we’d see. Like
“Am I (52m) the asshole for telling my wife (59f) she can’t use iPhone and telling her to use a dumbphone?”
Or some shit like
“Am I (20m) the asshole for telling my friends I’m not gonna make a tiktok account?”
my god, this would be glorious! I want it, I NEED IT, bro! I fucking NEED to see this shit!
I love the twist!
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+1
create this community pls if this doesnt exist yet
I block communities I have not interest in. So I don’t want any real limits on whats created.
Yea, there is already a lot of subs I don’t like, but… I have chose. An instance which is a little selective and block the rest. I also block spammy people with low tolerance.
So far it works nicely.
yeah and its nothing against the communities. sometimes its just not my thing. Even with users it might not be that bad a person but they just grate on me. With the fediverse I decided to throw out many of the internet conventions and treat it like I would real life.
Asking what people don’t want serves no function since you have no way to prevent it anyhow, it only serves to give trolls inspiration.
I thought that at first but the truth is stuff is starting to migrate over and is appearing in communities such as this one or news etc. I would rather it was added but added in the right place. Then it gives the individual control to block.
I don’t think it can be stopped and conversations and management are better thought of in advance.
I think my title could be less baity.
The other aspect you have to consider in the fedi vs typical sites is instances. It’s entirely possible to have the same community name in several instances and the flavor of them be wildly different depending on the instance culture and mods.
Controversial, but fauxbait. It means “fake jailbait”. Jailbait, of course, refers to lewd pictures of underage girls. So fauxbait is women who are of the age of majority, but strive to look as young as possible. They shave and wax, they don’t eat as much as they should, and they’re generally short to boot, so it looks like you’re looking at a middle school kid, but it’s really someone who can drink at the bar in America (21+).
Especially since Lemmy is so big on exposing the people in the Trump-Epstein files who are trafficking and abusing young women and girls, I don’t want to see people posting fauxbait. It makes the whole fediverse look bad. Like we don’t care about the girls, we only wanna take down the billionaires, and we only pretend to care about their extracurricular activities because it’s ethical leverage.
I guess if you’re 17-20, these girls are fine to you, but I’m pushing 50 and have nieces and nephews who are older than that. I like seeing grown women as much as the next guy, but if my first thought is, “she needs to put something on,” she’s probably too young (or is trying to look that way) and that’s something I don’t wanna see.
I think this one is very pertinent, I don’t see a lot of fauxbait here but I get frustrated at the Anime when some of it skirts with similar issues. I know its a cartoon but it still perpetuates it, and it seems acceptable to portray sexualised youth because ya know it’s just cartoon culture (yeh its not). The normalisation in so many areas is horrible to see.
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because that’s their worldview. ‘everything is politics’
and when you think that way, it’s a justification for being a total hypocritical ass who wants to lecture everyone else but gets ‘offended’ when they see politics they don’t agree with.
and their justification for violence and harassment towards others. they need you to be on the other team, so they can dismiss/hate/threaten you.
