• 15liam20@lemmy.world
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    2 months ago

    Hi everyone, this was the last straw for me. Can anyone point me in the direction of the porn?

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      This is the thing that gets me. It’s kind of a double edged sword using an underground community like Lemmy. I still use Reddit for nsfw (God bless red reader) because the normie girls haven’t migrated over here yet. There is such a mature community of self posting NSFW content that I haven’t found anywhere else on the Internet like it tbh.

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      Go to Bluesky. I think due to the size of the Fediverse its porn content is infinitesimally smaller than Reddits. To flab my cheeks together and speak out of my ass locally hosting explicit content on a home server is also too risky. The low content available + search complexity makes googling boobs a better option.

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    The annoying thing about the app was that it copied Facebook and constantly spammed my feed with subreddits I was not subscribed to. I used an alternative app for a while and that worked ok. It is so annoying when Facebook and the like constantly force you to follow pages and groups you are not interested in.

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      You can change that in the settings where your feed is only the subreddits you subscribe to. You’ll still see the stupid little ads but you won’t get posts from other subreddits you don’t subscribe to or that reddit thinks it needs to suggest to you. The only reason I still use reddit is because there’s a handful of subs I frequent that there are no equivalent on Lemmy. Plus I have a small group chat of friends.

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        Unfortunately or fortunately perhaps, I am banned from reddit. The reason was for reporting too many posts. Mods never cared about any of the rule breakers. They claimed I was trying to break the site by reporting posts too much. So I got banned without warning. Oh well.

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      Everything about their app is annoying. For them to be so late to their own party and deliver something so sub-par is impressive. It was nearly impossible to use for anything other than doom scrolling.

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    2 months ago

    I only use reddit via a web browser on a phone. I would never use some shitty app bloating the phone, tracking me, attempting to increase my engagement or shitting out a stream of ads. The same goes for all social media apps.

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      Agreed. I was all confused AF until I realized that people don’t automatically use it, or using the auto-redirect apps that help prevent New Reddit from ever showing its face.

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            I’ll agree to that. It’s just the first part where you are the only person sucks. Specifically with local communities.

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            The birding community is active enough for me. Honestly, I dont want modern day reddit experience in my niche communities. Theyre… Disrespectful? Lots of armchair experts who parrot internet takes and philosophies to get massive upvotes, and the hive mind mentality downvotes counter perspective. I love fly fishing, but damn do I hate the fly fishing subreddits.

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              I’ll agree to that. Hobby communities on reddit are typically newbies repeating information they read elsewhere on repeat. I’ve been playing high level hockey since I was a kid and I’ll take a peak at the hockey players subreddit. I saw a guy who had been playing for a year telling someone who was brand new to the sport about kick points on a stick. This guy will never reach a level where kick points are something that will affect your shot, but he’s out here giving advice.

              Don’t even get me started on the cycling subreddit.

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            That’s how I met my friend Mephistopheles Mammon when I was in the Parisian catacombs. Dude owes me $50.

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          Our niche interest communities are slowly being formed on the Fediverse, but if nobody participates then 🤷🏼‍♀️

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            Yep, I remember when I first joined Lemmy, you’d be lucky if your post got 2 comments. I recently posted on a car group here and got about as much engagement as I would have on r*ddit.

            I like it here, I like our community. Feels like a comic con in a small city. “I wish people at this con would talk about Squirrel Girl” maybe you should set up a booth. Same applies here.

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      Yeah came to say the same. I have a few subreddits I still lurk in because lemmy doesn’t have the largest communities on that topic yet. I imagine it is only a matter of time before old reddit is gone.

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      Hey man! I just bought a used travel trailer. I pick it up in a week and a half. We still have to sit down with the sales guy for the final extended warranty pitch. Two questions:

      1. Are the extended warranties offered by the dealership worth it? I would assume anything major that goes wrong will happen on the road and i’ll be stuck getting repairs done in Iowa or some shit.

      2. Do you have any experience with harvest hosts? Is it easy to use and worth the cost? Hows the host availability.

      I got a 21ft geo pro. Probably too big for a lot of boondocking, but i still plan to boondock it as much as possible. I dont love the idea of always being at KOAs and such.

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        Are the extended warranties offered by the dealership worth it?

        Not in my opinion but it depends how you’ll be using the trailer. The thing people don’t expect is that warranty work gets last priority. When you bring in the trailer for warranty work, there is no new revenue for the dealership. So the trailer will just sit there on the lot, possibly for months, waiting until the repair guys have literally nothing else to do, before they will actually start work on it.

        This is super unprofessional but seems to be the industry norm.

        If you’re only going to use the trailer a couple times a year maybe this is fine, but if you use it a lot and you need to be back on the road fast then it makes the warranty basically unusable.

        Plus also what you said, unless you bought from a national dealer the warranty will not help you with emergency roadside stuff. But mostly when things break it won’t stop you from towing the trailer — you would just finish your vacation with no refrigerator or whatever which is annoying but not fatal.

        I live in mine full-time. When things break that I can’t fix myself my first choice is a mobile tech so I don’t have to get a hotel while they fix it.

        Do you have any experience with harvest hosts?

        No, I haven’t tried it. Some people seem to like it a lot, other people complain. 🤷

        I got a 21ft geo pro. Probably too big for a lot of boondocking, but i still plan to boondock it as much as possible. I dont love the idea of always being at KOAs and such.

        21’ is not too big for boondocking. The thing about boondocking is you have to somehow know where to find a good spot. iOverlander website is good for that. Out west, especially in the desert, there are lots of places on public land where there is a usable gravel road with big cleared sites that anyone can get to in any size RV. Other places where it rains more, not so much — tight twisty potholed dirt roads through the forest with little carve-out spots between trees are not good for big setups. Regional parks, state parks, natural forest parks, and national parks are often pretty awesome. There’s also a lot of RV parks out in the middle of nowhere that can be super nice and park-y — shout out to La Conner thousand trails in WA, Pacific City thousand trails in OR, “The Narrows” in Maine — but very hit or miss; some are just a parking lot, too. KOA is convenient and consistent but expensive. We use them when they’re the closest campground to someplace we want to be visiting (just got out of three days at KOA near my sister in law) but yeah if you like boondocking then KOA will not be a fun destination for you.

        Good luck, have fun, don’t cheap out on the hose you use for dumping your black tank.

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          Thanks a bunch for the words of wisdom.

          In terms of not having niche communities on Lemmy, I think it’s the Field of Dreams situation – but im generally too lazy to build it.

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    This wouldn’t bother me at all if reddit didn’t appear at the top of almost every damn question I Google nowadays. Why are you pushing reddit for answers if you won’t let me see them?

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      Right? They didn’t have mobile experience before. It’s ok., I will only use desktop and spread the word of lemmy even faster

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    None of this would be a issue if the lazy fucks would migrate to other platforms like Lemmy etc, right now this app is very limited compared to all the various subreddits, people need to start making replicas of the popular and niche subreddits and make it easier for people to migrate

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      I would argue that Lemmy.world has even more strict rules than reddit. At least it seems like that sometimes. Certain topics are just deleted.

      I think Lemmy is decent for memes and entertainment but I dont think it can serve as a proper discussion site. The moderation wouldnt work. Unpaid moderators cant keep this place open for good discussions because it requires too much effort. But its good for memes. I like Lemmy in that way. Its positive and fun.

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        How is the moderation landscape any different on Lemmy vs Reddit? Aren’t Reddit moderators all unpaid too?

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          I think so, but people want to do it for a high profile site like reddit. Not so much for Lemmy.

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          Probably transphobia tbh. That’s a hot button issue across Lemmy, as it should be.

          The person you’re replying to might be conflating .world with .ml or one of the other authoritarian left instances. On those criticizing any world power other than the US is called out as racism.

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          Yeah I never seen anything crazy on .world except some mistakes and a few power tripping community mods but nowhere near what reddit is. Maybe OP is thinking of .ml which is an absolute shithole in every sense of the word.

          Either way that’s the entire point of decentralization - you can just hop on a different server.

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    Reached for comment, the company instead offered a puzzling explanation: that the site-breaking popup is for users’ own good.

    Fuck you reddit, fuck /u/spez!

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    on one of the wierdly on one of the firefox forks, it keeps reloading the page making you go back to the top every single time if you backspace, it so bad i had to use the firefox browser again so it wont reload the whole page which forces you to the top of the reddit feed, whicch coincidentally also refreshes and keep showing you different subs.

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        I’ve seen this popup on the mobile website with Firefox a few times, enabling a user agent switcher extention and setting my user agent to be that of a desktop operating system makes the popup go away.

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            There are numerous user agent switcher extentions you can use across both the chrome web store and the firefox web store. However since Firefox supports extentions on mobile, unlike chrome, you could say that it is a Firefox extention for this use case.

            Explanation of what a user agent is, just in case:

            A user agent is a small piece of text your browser sends to websites that includes information about the operating environment of the user, stuff like browser version and the operating system.

            Normally, if I went to Reddit on Android, Reddit could see from my user agent that I was on android device, so Reddit could prompt me to download the app and block my acsess to the reddit content from the website with the popup mentioned in the post.

            Basically, changing your user agent is like making your browser lie to websites by saying “I am Chrome running on Windows” rather than “I am Firefox running on Android”, causing Reddit to falsely believe that I am not using a smartphone, therefore it would be dumb to tell me to use the smartphone app instead of the website, therefore the popup doesnt appear and I can use the Reddit website on my phone freely.

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          They intentionally target Firefox, because of plugins and real adblocker. Tbh I don’t even care. I would use reddit only from desktop before I ever see ads. It’s their loss my valuable content won’t be on their platform.

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      there are too many hyper local subs on there to stop reading it entirely… I’d love to even get state level channels on lemmy, but there are only a few.

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        Yeah, there is one for my town and what I miss is that there were some really good local meteorologists in there. They’d call out storms or bad weather days before it came up on any weather feed and most of the time they were super accurate.

        I kind of miss it, but after being banned for nonsense, I don’t think I can go back. It was fun while it lasted but everyone knew once they went public, it was going to change and it did.

        Something else will replace it. Might be Lemmy, might be something else. I don’t really care of it’s a for-profit model, just don’t run it like assholes. There’s no reason it has to be so binary.

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        The only online local communities I am aware of for where I live are on facebook, so I just don’t get involved. Reddit does have a county wide one but that is pretty quiet. Oddly the city subs are more popular than the county one but I don’t live in either city. Might be because both have a fairly big uni.

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      Many of us here stopped a while back. For me, it was the API thing a couple of years ago. But it’s still useful to check reddit website for info - there’s just so many answers to so many questions on there. But fuck using their app.

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        I would have switched sooner if I had known about lemmy, but been here over a year now.

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          It took time to get to this point. The software had to mature and a lot of people wouldn’t stay around with so few choices of communities, but you can count on /u/spez to keep enshitifying Reddit, so Lemmy stays growing.

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        That’s my situation. I nuked my comment history with a script when it was obvious they wanted to profit off of ai scraping. I still look at old reddit.com in my desktop, but I don’t touch it on mobile.

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          Yeah I have looked at old a few times, reddit is shit but internet searches are often even shitter these days with so fucking many AI generated websites.

          If I know a better source I will search for that. Started growing some of my own food recently so anything plant related I try and check RHS first.

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        I used reddit for years. Made lots of comments, had original posts hit #1 many times. I was contributing to their site.

        Then I said something bad about Musk and got banned. I think it was about Musk, they deleted a bunch of what I posted so I’m not entirely sure.

        I still browse reddit from time to time. I use the old reddit site with adblock. Now I’m just a leech to them. I take but don’t contribute back.

        I’m fine with that relationship.

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      Once again I am reminded of an old coworker. He’d talk a good game about caring about things, but when it came to the slightest inconvenience he’d dither and usually just do the basic thing. Still an avid reddit user, last I heard.

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        I stayed with them and bitched about them for quite some time. About the time they started cracking down on the API i went ahead and left because whatever inconvenience I was weathering would be 10x worse if I waited till the last minute to start over somewhere else.

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      I’m so glad I was permabanned with no possible way to ever login under any new or existing username ever again. That’s the only they could keep me away. It’s been healthy for me.

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        same here, but there is a way to login, you just cant use the same IP/device, or browsers. more sophisticated ones you can run dozens of accounts on the same device(but this is more complicated. reddit is so oppressive it sniffs out alternatives ways to evade its filters.(this more for the spammers who drop thier OF ads/or driving people to thier own sites)

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        I’m in the same boat. I’ve had more productive conversations/debates with people on here in 6 months than 12 years on reddit.

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          I agree as far as politics, but for everything else I like - music, guitars, cats, animals - Lemmy is sadly lacking.

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              Yep. I just got permabanned last week and for the most part don’t care. But I had created a small sub that I miss ☹️ very niche, won’t be able to do it again.

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        One thing I like about Lemmy is I’m less prone to doom scrolling. I just make a few comments a day and monitor the results. Their server limitations serve as an incentive to make a less addictive product.

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      it takes some people mnay attempts to get out of an abusive relationship

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    Is that why lemmy.world is now shitting the bed every third load like it’s under a DDOS?