A lack of filter means saying whatever is on your mind without considering politeness, appropriateness, relevance, or respect for the situation. People who have no filter may use profanity when they should not or bring up sensitive topics such as religion, politics, sex, body parts, or body odors in ways that offend others. Human communication follows social norms, and these norms discourage creating unnecessary controversy, embarrassing people, or discussing highly divisive topics in casual conversation. When someone ignores these norms, they may be seen as awkward, weird, or socially unaware, and others may feel unsafe or uncomfortable interacting with them. Appropriateness is a skill that can be learned by thinking before speaking, considering the audience and situation, and asking whether something is respectful, relevant, and suitable to say.
They only think that because they hate hearing what unapologetically honest people have to say about them.
Like, if you’re at someone’s house for dinner and their cooking is terrible, you should tell them so they can learn how to cook better. They’re gonna be upset though.
At least you won’t have the problem of being invited for dinner anymore
Is that really the point in that moment though? They didn’t invite you so you could teach them how to cook, but to spend time with you and have friendly conversations. Saying that would really only serve to ruin the day for them, and possibly for yourself as well depending on how they’ll react.
I think the way you say it can make a difference. Don’t be harsh. Be polite and constructive. And yes, say it at an appropriate time as well.
I completely agree… but… Isn’t that exactly what a filter is though?
You might be right. So it might be necessary to have a “filter” to some extent in society. Otherwise, you’d have a bad time.
I think that sounds fair.
It might not be illegal to not have a filter, but if your lack of filter makes you unpleasant to be around, then others might not want to be around you.