As an adopted kid, I really hate your generalizing here.

I blamed my parents (all three of them and beyond) and took responsiblity for myself. You kind of have no other choice. I can read the family trauma passed down like a book. The person who adopted me, gave me the most trauma. He did prison time for it. As a child, I needed someone to actually love me, and no one did. When I turned 18 (and let loose) I realized many years later, that there wasnt a single adult I trusted at that age.

I wish I was adopted into a loving home. Its all I ever wanted, instead, I was adopted to a monster. Heaven forbid someone take some time to feel anger about thier shitty life hand. Of course you have to stand up and deal too, but its understandable someone has anger about it. Ive met plenty of cunts who were raised by their bio parents who are angry and violent. Ive never hurt anyone, never been in a fight, never arrested, never did drugs. I struggle just like anyone, and have successes just like anyone. Im proud of me, and a few of my siblings.

Wed have gotten further if some adult actually cared about our well being as children, instead of being seen as burdens.