i only feel sexual attraction towards my partners, and they have to be sexual first. if they’re not sexual people, i only feel romance to them and no sexual feelings. i frankly don’t wanna bang anyone and have never felt like actually doing so until i met my partner, and even then, it’s more out of curiosity and romantic sparks than anything else (i’m super romantic so i’m not aromantic).

i only feel sexual feelings under certain circumstances, and even then, i use it to make myself happy and not really wanting to have sex with someone.

i am sure i feel sexual attraction, like probably towards my partner, but i’d say less so than most people do, perhaps???

i’m demisexual for now which is on the ace spectrum.

  • TubularTittyFrog@lemmy.worldEnglish
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    16 days ago

    no they don’t. where are you getting this stuff from?

    most people are not attracted to most people. most normal people are only attracted to a handful of people.

    and i’m not talking about sexual fantasizing here, i’m talking real world attraction.

    • FearMeAndDecay@literature.cafeEnglish
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      16 days ago

      I didn’t say they’re attracted to most people they meet, I said that they potentially could feel sexual attraction. As in, it’s not unusual for them to feel sexual attraction towards a complete stranger