Put a password on a specific video and share the password with specific people
Make them “internal”, they will not be distributed via activity pub and only people who have an account on your instance can see them (this is what I do, I gave friends and family an account on my instance, about 90% of my videos are internal)
Make the video unlisted, like on youtube only people with the direct link can see it, doesn’t federate and doesn’t show up in lists or search
Immich for backups from the phones.
PeerTube for videos worth sharing with friends and family.
Can you make videos private and only accessible to certain people on peertube??
Yes there are several ways to do it: