Imo, the 2 things that keep people unhappy in their jobs are
Not aggressively pursuing jobs that could be marginally better than their current job.
Not believing that their dream job could exist, or that they would ever be good enough for it, and settling for something that is “good enough”.
Also, my Mustaschian side is cringing at the combo of high paying tech job + soon can’t pay the bills + afford our lifestyle. My response to that would be: rein in lifestyle, get any job that pays any money, and keep the bills paid. Then work back up to the high paying job, but keep lifestyle reined in, and build up a healthy cash reserve. Then, using the economic buffer you’ve built in, aggressively pursue a job that pays you even more money, but also gives you flexibility, time with family, and lets you play with puppies.
Imo, the 2 things that keep people unhappy in their jobs are
Also, my Mustaschian side is cringing at the combo of high paying tech job + soon can’t pay the bills + afford our lifestyle. My response to that would be: rein in lifestyle, get any job that pays any money, and keep the bills paid. Then work back up to the high paying job, but keep lifestyle reined in, and build up a healthy cash reserve. Then, using the economic buffer you’ve built in, aggressively pursue a job that pays you even more money, but also gives you flexibility, time with family, and lets you play with puppies.