I miss a “just have a nice chatter about your daily personal life” community. What to ask?
I tell you about mine. I was at a meetup yesterday of the local CCC (chaos computer club) in vienna. it was 20 years of CCC vienna meetup. was fun, met a lot of cute people, was too shy to talk to any of them, now i’m here sitting in my room bored and wondering what to do.
honestly, my best advice is just to burn everything down with fire at this point (figuratively).
i.e. just take a big black plastic bag and put everything that’s laying on the floor into it; close the bag and throw into trash. Don’t even bother with distinguishing different types of garbage. just throw it all away. using this crude approach, you need very little mental energy, because you don’t need to think about each manual step so much, and it’s quickly done. Then, when most garbage is gone, you can call the maid for further steps.