A couple of book recommendations for people worried about this kind of thing.
“Bonk” by Mary Roach. She’s a very good science communicator and is also quite funny. There’s a lot of good info in here.
“A Billion Wicked Thoughts: What the Internet Tells Us About Sexual Relationships” by Sai Gaddam and Ogi Ogas. This book is not rigorous science, but it is no total junk. It is also informative and entertaining. A tidbit of generalized info: men tend to think about dicks and look at dicks way more than women do.



They aren’t making new ones anymore, but you might enjoy the back catalog of the “Black Box Down” podcast. I think it had about 12 seasons.