Abijah Fowler from Blue Eye Samurai, one of the only four white men in Japan who might be the father of the protagonist. He’s one of the few who manage to challenge the protagonist in combat, but you’re not just watching for that. The dialogue for the show is top notch, but any time he comes up you know you’re in for a treat. My favorite is still “Are you–still alive? Why?”, but here’s a reasonably spoiler-free scene.

I’ve only had the fortune to read about a bigender person once in literature, and they’re a character in TJ Klune’s The Art of Breathing (Corey/Kori). It’s the third in a series, but jumping right into that one should be fine if you’re okay missing out on the other books. I think you might enjoy it.

This feeling has killed so many hobbies for me.