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  • Could you tell what, approximately, was the important thing to read in the book?

    I’m going to begin my HRT within the next month, I think, and while I do believe I’ve got a good hang of why I want slash need HRT, I’m obviously open for more insight that helps me understand myself yet a little better. That book is not available in my own library, but seems to be available some 100 km away, so I could get it with a somewhat reasonable hassle, but I’d like more insight on whether going through the hassle is worth it or not.





  • I think taking away the burden of choice regarding the changing room could be nice – towards a trans woman at least. So, if they’re a woman, just show them the women’s changing room. If they show hesitancy, then tell them they’re of course free to use the other room as well.

    A trans woman in men’s changing room can end up encountering some seriously shitty shit. A trans woman in women’s changing room is definitely safe, and unlikely to end up in any negative encounters whatsoever.

    I’ve been very pleasantly surprised by how positively cis women react to trans women! 🩷

    Many trans women can feel insecure about their right to use the women’s changing room, so gently pushing them that way as showing that as the assumed default will help them.

    Also make sure that the customer knows that if there should be any conflicts with other customers, you definitely will have their back!



  • There are, but I am not aware of one that would prescribe anything without a trans diagnosis from the public healthcare. And because I got diagnosed with psychosis for being transgender, it will take a couple of years for them to agree to give me a trans diagnosis. Now they see me as fake trans who just “has psychosis that will eventually pass and they’ll be male again”. Once the “psychosis” is “dealt with”, they’ll probably give me the diagnosis.

    Those private ones are useful if you have plenty of money and want to skip the queues that can be 1½ years long, but first you need to get the public healthcare to cooperate. And in my case it won’t, for the time being.