i haven’t, but i guess im going to now :)

LFS :0 ur so cool

The first 2 words got me so excited 😭

Hi Nissa!

You’re the only one that can say for sure, but it definitely sounds like you’re trans. You don’t have to fit in a binary box to be a woman, and it’s normal for it to feel different from time to time.

If you feel comfortable with it, I definitely recommend talking to your wife/friends about how you feel. Definitely be cautious if you’re not sure how they’ll respond. Your safety is important.

What you do next comes down to 3 major questions: Who do you want to be? Is it safe for you to be that person? If it isn’t safe, what needs to change?

There’s no wrong or right way to be trans. You don’t have to have any specific traits, and you don’t have to follow any specific transition path. Do what you feel is right.