It’s interesting how different work environments, laws and rules can be as to influence or assumptions. Where I live lunch breaks are always paid, so I was appalled by your comment. Until I read the last part. Shows how easy it is to take stuff for granted and that we always have to push back.
Just my 3 cents, all these jobs sound pretty hard for someone with auADHD, many sensory triggers and/or situations where you have to expertly navigate interactions with people. I don’t struggle with my job and I am pretty stable, but would totally struggle a lot in those you’ve tried.
I just hope it makes you feel a bit better. As others said you should give meds a shot, but it really does not help the job requirements are pretty challenging.
It’s interesting how differently countries handle these types of things. Where I live one can be authorized to order prescription drugs for others in mail. So I order ADHD medicine for my partner once in a while since it’s less bother for me. And I get free shipping for whatever else I am ordering in the same shipping due to increased cart value. The package is delivered in my mailbox, no signature, no hassle.