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Cake day: June 10th, 2023

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  • A problem I’ve seen also is creating a niche community because you don’t want to just get the general content, but since there’s simple fewer users it’s just dead. And when someone else thinks about switching to Lemmy, they see a bunch of dead communities and are like “oh this site is dead.”

    It’s annoying but on a newer site(/federation of sites) those niche communities need to be conversations that start in a more generalized community that enough people want to branch it off into it’s own thing. So there’s already core users, so it’s not DOA.






  • I have a corollary of this: time to get ready, drive somewhere, etc. only exists in 15 minute increments.

    If I think something is a 5 minute drive, it’s because the time I hit every single green light and there wasn’t a single car. If I tell myself I need 15 minutes then I probably end up about 5 minutes early which is so much better than constantly being late. Same for like, “all I need to go l do is put my shoes on and grab my coat so I’m going to waste time doing something into right before I have to leave.” Nope. I need 15 minutes dedicated strictly to getting ready to walk out the door. Gives me time to find my keys, change my mind about what shoes I want to wear, decide I want to fill up my water bottle before I leave, the dozen little things I always forget are part of getting out the door. It usually doesn’t take 15 minutes, so it then gives me a bit of extra cushion for traveling to whatever’s next.

    I used to be late to everything and now I’m early for everything and much less stressed.