I’m asking as a non-religious person; I just find it romantic. I met a guy I really like recently and we’ve been hanging out a lot. I told him about my boundary, and he’s cool with it.

  • Hegar@fedia.io
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    28 days ago

    I do think it’s a bad idea, even as someone who saves sex for committed relationships.

    • A lifelong commitment to a potentially disappointing physical relationship doesn’t seem like a great plan.
    • Before sex, there’s a lot of incentive to present your best self. Afterwards people are a more comfortable presenting more of who they are.
    • You learn a lot about someone’s priorities, self-control, receprocity, hang ups, etc.

    But if it works for you, don’t let others talk you out of it.