I read it as being maybe mildly combative but in a flirty way. But also conveying emotion over text is difficult, so I’d assume good intentions until unless given reason not to.
If you have lots of choice you can afford to vet strictly lol. I guess also if you’re used to people being arses you put up a bit of a wall before they pass the vibe check.
Am I being defensive or is that first question combative?
I read it as being maybe mildly combative but in a flirty way. But also conveying emotion over text is difficult, so I’d assume good intentions until unless given reason not to.
If you have lots of choice you can afford to vet strictly lol. I guess also if you’re used to people being arses you put up a bit of a wall before they pass the vibe check.