Here goes. If the DEI post wasn’t political enough to get removed I think I deserve a shot. Feel free to ask me to clarify points, as I’m so used to not being able to be heard that my initial post will probably be a bit too simplistic.

I’ve heard it preached in two different ways, and while one is more understandable, the other seems ridiculously out of touch.

The first is us low earners. Yeah it sucks if you get paid a dollar less per hour, but in my experience (retail, fast food, factories, etc.) the women got paid more, because they took the jobs more seriously and called off less. But it feels like moot point when you consider that we’re all fighting over table scraps here.

The worst is any talk of high paying jobs, like I’m sorry, but how am I supposed to care if a woman is getting paid multiple thousands of dollars less than her associates when the rest of us can’t pay rent? Oh boohoo, you can’t afford a third car, when I and the woman who makes 50 cents less than me can’t afford rent, food, or medical care.

I always get flamed for talking about this, but it drives me up the wall when people can’t see the obvious staring them right in the face. The wage gap is just a way to get us all snapping at each other instead of the rich.

Personally I think it’s a problem of stagnation. People (Feminists in this case) really don’t like being told their old tactics don’t work sometimes. I mean, they’ve been fighting for this for how long? If you haven’t won yet maybe you’ve got your targets and allies a little mixed up. Maybe demanding you get yours first is pushing away potential support.

Edit:jfc, is this really the best we’ve got? Appeals to capitalistic greed and assumptions about my positions on sexism? No wonder we lost so many men to the right, you’re quite literally proving my title correct.

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    “Oh boohoo, you can’t afford a third car, when I and the woman who makes 50 cents less than me can’t afford rent, food, or medical care.”

    I feel like learning about exponents might help clarify why the issue scales and is, therefore, worth discussing.

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        Youre even admitting that youre being lazy about it, and you expect people to engage with lazy rhetoric? I had my suspicions but im now convinced, at the absolute oldest, youre 19 years old or at least your psyche is stuck at that age. I dont care to explain anything to anyone who is making claims with the least amount of effort possible. Youre just an angry child. Go have a juicebox, you’ll feel better.

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          Ah yes, God forbid I don’t want to read multiple pages on a subject I’ve already read up on in the past.

          You wonder why people dont agree with you when you refuse to clarify your position? Who’s the child here? You literally put more effort into ad hominem and dismissing my point than actually making a point.

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              … yes, pages. The link I posted has quite a bit to scroll through. Admittedly it might be a bit different from what I’ve read before, but there is quite a bit to get through from what I saw.

              Some of us are busy working, cleaning, cooking, between posts.