People using terminology referencing abuse on this website with no trigger warnings (which I thought was a bit of a safe place) hurts me so much. I feel stupid and weak for not being able to handle what others should be able to handle (and there is one person in particular that I am annoyed with, but I am not comfortable with revealing their name).

I feel less of a want to use this website because of the fear of pain and frustration I feel towards myself (and maybe towards the people that use such terms, but I am not sure how much of the blame should really be put on them).

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    11 days ago

    Hmm… As someone into psychology I don’t like people’s use of psychopath and sociopath and narcissist to describe selfish people who commit heinous acts. It pathologizes what we know is a product of capitalist environment, something real people with ASPD and NPD rarely benefit from. It’s a matter of peoplle speaking on things they haven’t investigated. I have similar hangups with the use of “pedophile” to describe CSA perpetrator despite the two groups rather rarely overlapping.

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      10 days ago

      Oh yeah I was gonna make a post about this. I hate pop-psychology so so so so SOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO much. There’s nothing I could say that would allow you to FATHOM how much I despise it.

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        10 days ago

        You’re the one who was in fandom spaces and bore witness to proship-anti wars. Pop-psych is absolutely rampant there.

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        Yeah the way I see it is that, this time, the medical jargon is filling a real hole in the English language. What I mean is: how do you turn “selfish” into a noun? And I don’t mean “selfishness” I mean a noun that describes a person. Are we supposed to be calling people “selfists”? Selfers? Selfians?

        You could say “selfish person” but that’s a mouthful and doesn’t sound the same as using a proper word.

        All synonyms have the same problem except for the ones that are also jargon.

        adjective noun
        narcissistic narcissist
        selfish ???
        self-centered ???
        greedy ???
        conceited ???
        vain ???
        egomaniacal egomaniac
        egotistical egoist
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      8 days ago

      Yeah, people can be prone to overusing specific scientific terminology in incorrect contexts (especially for political terminology).