• Taleya@aussie.zone
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    2 months ago

    You’re hearing hooves and thinking zebras.

    A couple that splits expenses will be better off than someone who carries the load by themselves.

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      2 months ago

      “also”. It doesn’t have to be one or the other. Both could be contributing factors, and it looks like the research didn’t control for either.

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        2 months ago

        fair, but you’re kinda wedded to the idea that “People with more money” more readily get partners in a weird way.

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          2 months ago

          It is true that it’s harder to date when you’re poor. Try taking a woman out to dinner and asking her to pay for you. See if you get a second date.

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            2 months ago

            If these are the only dynamics you think possible in dating, then money ain’t the reason you’re not getting a second one.

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          2 months ago

          I mean, by inspection, it seems easily true. If you’re working 100 hours per week, you’re probably not taking much time out for dating.

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      2 months ago

      “also”. It doesn’t have to be one or the other. Both could be contributing factors, and it looks like the research didn’t control for either.