Just one 🤷 I’ve always been picky, so anyone who’d get that far would be someone I could see working out long-term. We’re in our 7th year together now.
- Thanks everyone, for the very entertaining lunch break read!
I am not sure. Older and experienced, though. A few before my first monogamous run with my ex, that lasted about 20 years, then a few more, then my husband & I did some swinging, and have settled down to just us for about 8 years. But every day, it’s nice.
a virgin at 21, a 29 year relationship and then approx 15 in 8 years
15 from age 50-58?
Ya
It depends on what you count
Zero
Just don’t have the drive. Perfectly happy with not bothering with the social dynamics required to flirt / commit etc. I don’t have much need to have a partner either short term or long term.
No idea if I’m just weird or if it’s a somewhat common thing for some people.
These answers are wild, didn’t know lemmings were such dirty dogs (in a good way <3)
Being the awkward socially disabled neuromasala dude that I am, I count myself lucky to have even met my wife and had the guts to say “hello” when we finally met face to face after 5 months of texting. I absolutely can’t fathom hooking up with someone I barely know, and here y’all are going “oh I lost count”, “low 3 digits”, “are we counting orgies…?”
Trick question. Everyone on the Internet is a nerdy virgin waiting for Mom to bring us pizza rolls.
Probably about 30.
I’m pretty sure all of them were sexual. I however, am not.
I think 9, of them one was a one-night stand and the rest I dated for a while
Maybe a hundred by now, lost count. My wife has hundreds more than me, and we keep increasing our numbers together, so to speak. God I love my wife and I love my life.
Wife an I love to regularly go to sex clubs, we have regular partners we play with a lot, and we both give eachother the freedom that if we have an opportunity to have sex while the other isn’t there, take it. We both simply love sex and we’re super open and honest and respectful about our wants, needs, and desires
Nice. I’m poly and demi so I can’t do that myself, but my wife has partners over for sex pretty regularly. She keeps thinking that I care, and I keep telling her they could fuck in front of me and it wouldn’t bother me a bit.
With this many partners don’t you get afraid of catching STDs? How do you manage that?
Not who you asked, but as a former sex worker- condoms and regular std screenings.
I’ve never had an std and slept with probably nearing a thousand people.
2 … unless you let me count my hands
Is it bad if I say I don’t remember?
Yeah, I started to count and just got kinda sad. Remembering the mistakes they were, or that I made. I don’t really care all that much anyways.
