It’s been my personal experience that sexual attraction is a separate thing from acting on it. Like, I can find my friend’s wife attractive, yet somehow I don’t assault her or pressure her to have sex with me. Even if I found myself in a situation where we were alone and she was unable to resist me.

Even if she took some crazy aphrodisiac and wanted me, but I knew she wasn’t really in control of herself, nothing would happen with me because I know it’s wrong and I have self control. I can say for sure because I’ve been in a similar situation to that, but it was a woman who was desperate to control her sex addiction.

But I’m not a pedophile, maybe it’s different for them.