• DagwoodIII@piefed.social
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    26 days ago

    Therapist I know once told me that she always tries to tailor her advice into a form her patient is familiar with.

    With a fanboy she’ll talk about Star Trek shields and Superman kryptonite.

    With a musician she’ll talk about harmony and tempo.

    • flambonkscious@sh.itjust.works
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      26 days ago

      Great communication but I’d be curious to hear about the times it didn’t work or even backfired.

      I think therapists would have some great standup material. Their drinking sessions would be fantastic

  • paranoia@feddit.dk
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    26 days ago

    If a member fails it is in fact because it is too weak. It would pass the utilisation check otherwise.

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      26 days ago

      “Too weak” for the specific load applied to it, i.e not supported/ aided enough by its community of members

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        25 days ago

        There is the possibility of misconfiguration, but ultimately, a member can be too weak even if the configuration is correct.

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          25 days ago

          But, according to the little poem, would we not say thst member was “too isolated”? E.g bearing too much of the load by itself when it would have been more responsibke to make neighbouring members bear the load?

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            25 days ago

            No, we would not. The beams have a loading that they must adequately support. They have a span that is dictated by the column spacing. There are moment, shear and deflection requirements that must be met.

            You cannot just throw in supports (i.e., columns, bracing) everywhere to reduce the span until it works, otherwise you impact the usability of the building space and drive up the cost of construction.

            Reducing the beam to beam spacing means you are increasing the number of structural elements and therefore cost, and probably also using the material inefficiently. The expensive part of a beam is the connection, and you typically want to reduce the number of connections and crane lifts as much as possible.

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      25 days ago

      Is life really just small beams, resting on bigger beams, resting on columns? Is that all there is every time?

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      26 days ago

      Are you saying structural engineers struggle to uphold mental structural integrity?

      • AlpacaChariot@lemmy.world
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        26 days ago

        No, but a lot of us are more prone to just doing everything ourselves rather than communicating and working together in a big team.

        High yield stress!

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    26 days ago

    Anyone can build a bridge that stands, but only an engineer can build one that just barely stands.

    Similar concept with therapists

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    25 days ago

    i put a sign in my kitchen that says: never put sheer weight on non-reinforced concrete