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  • Yeah, sorry, I got some friend which got hurt by people saying this exact thing. I reacted emotionally. You know I was raised by women and got a daughter and discovered the treatment done to girl then women this is still hurting. I didn’t knew what a little layway is used to justify really bad behaviors. But I may have over reacted, did you mean that as a joke in a joke ? I mean with the context of the European and the us society, this can be understood as saying that women complain about not getting asked when they reject people. Or it can be understood as remarking that the girl/women is doing normal stuff and is getting proposed like this ? Which is it ? Do you know in the dating world the men and women don’t have the same experience at all. I hope it changed but it look like no. Men have rare occasion which push some men to jumping at each opportunities making people inconfortable and women got proposed often and can’t know if people are opportunistic and got proposed often.


  • Diurnambule@jlai.lutoScience Memes@mander.xyzForensic Poetry
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    11 hours ago

    That’s interesting, is it an active though process or does it came to you like an flash ? For me it have two mode of working. Active, I am hyper focusing on a subject and keep reanalysing things or passive, I can’t focus well for a time period and I feel something is amiss then one day illumination and I got the answer of a tricky problem/sytuation, some time I didn’t even knew I had an issue ? I noticed that feeding informations seemly random on and around the subject is speeding the process. Some time I fell like a part isn’t contrôlable so I work to influence it. (This skill help me at work)






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    14 hours ago

    Dépend, if you are ADHD canabis is an amazing way to increase the symptom and trigger an hyperfocus while going at 200% on all directions, great for a créativity boost. Whole reducing canabis and increasing active plant like caféine help reduce the symptom and make it easy to speak to neuro-typical. May be he had ADD or ADHD and used this to trigger what was called creative transe. My bad I missed the no requirement part. Yeah I join you on the sentiments, but I am not convinced artist need drug to create, like you are.