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the experiences of boys and girls in society aren’t comparable.
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this post is about girls, going “but what about the boys?” on it is just misogyny.
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cause traditionally/stereotypically feminine things are seen as stupid, useless, and cringe while masculine ones are seen as serious, deep, and respectable.
trans people also show that being a man is seen as an “upgrade” while being a woman a “downgrade” (trans men don’t get a fraction of the hate trans women do). same thing with tomboys-femboys.
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Ask Lemmy@lemmy.world•What’s your favorite pastime/activity at the moment?
0·2 days agobirdwatching is awesome

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Ask Lemmy@lemmy.world•What’s your favorite pastime/activity at the moment?
0·2 days agothank you for this, actually. i don’t give my posts much thought, my style is stream of consciousness combined with yapping. fun analysis to read.🫶
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Ask Lemmy@lemmy.world•What’s your favorite pastime/activity at the moment?
0·2 days agoThe court’s shaded and I play in the morning, so overheating isn’t really an issue. Then it’s straight into the pool afterward.
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Ask Lemmy@lemmy.world•What’s your favorite pastime/activity at the moment?
0·2 days agoI don’t see how it’s bragging. Everyone has their own lives, so the answers are bound to vary. It’s 9 a.m. and I was just thinking about how much I enjoy doing this every morning, which got me wondering what other people are into these days.
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Lemmy Shitpost@lemmy.world•belt tight around my neck being pulled back hard in doggy >>>
0·3 days agodisclaimer: any activity involving choking should not be taken lightly.
a collar and leash is also way safer than a belt.
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Lemmy Shitpost@lemmy.world•my current daddy fling born in the 1970s
0·3 days agoin March, I made a post on asklemmy about going on a date with a '93 guy (date ended up not happening) and oh boy did i get flamed.😭
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Lemmy Shitpost@lemmy.world•my current daddy fling born in the 1970s
0·3 days agothat’s exactly what I’m doing rn, living my daddy fantasy this summer. plus, I asked my dad to set me up with someone, so the guy I’m seeing is vetted and my dad knows him well, which makes me feel super safe and comfortable. i’ll probably get hate for this on here, but it is what it is.😌
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Lemmy Shitpost@lemmy.world•my current daddy fling born in the 1970s
0·3 days agoit’s crazy on the opposite end too cause wdym someone born in 1990 is old enough to be my dad (i’m a Feb 2008 baby). that’s so recent and most of my favorite celebrities are from that era and I don’t see them as old😭
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Lemmy Shitpost@lemmy.world•most perverted men are actually very vanilla and run away when faced with a perverted woman
0·4 days agomy guess: for men, even little things such as seeing boobs (especially in real life) is “taboo”/exciting. so their idea of “perverted” is pretty tame.
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Lemmy Shitpost@lemmy.world•most perverted men are actually very vanilla and run away when faced with a perverted woman
0·4 days agoa self proclaimed kinky guy told me that me rimming him is “too much” for him. wdym too much that’s super basic😵💫
All the Blackpink members come from wealthy families. I don’t know why people keep trying to portray them as self-made🥴
for me: intense, heavy fullness and a deep, rhythmic pressure in the pelvis + indirect hitting of vaginal nerve endings from behind (A-spot).
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Asklemmy@lemmy.ml•What was the worst American remake of a foreign movie you've seen after watching the original version?
0·5 days agoI don’t know if it’s the worst, but Speak No Evil (2022) has to be up there. It’s a bleak Danish-Dutch horror movie about the dangers of being a people-pleaser and ignoring red flags out of politeness. The 2024 American remake turned it into a pretty typical Hollywood horror movie with a happy ending, which completely undermines the whole point of the original.
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Asklemmy@lemmy.ml•How do people have spontaneous sex in random places without washing?
0·6 days agojokes on you, i’m into that shit.
manstink drives me absolutely crazy.🥴

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Ask Lemmy@lemmy.world•What are your opinions on regular drinking?
0·6 days agono alcohol, nicotine, drugs. spf 50+ sunscreen always on. wanna be hot and youthful for a long time.

fem guys already relate to content targeted toward women since their lived experience is closer to that than to the typical man, so no exclusion.
men often do this. post is about something women related -> “but what about the men?”. we don’t have a duty or obligation to include men in every single conversation. men can also create their own content/conversations, and they should. hijacking/inserting themselves just reeks of insecurity and misogyny.