I swear I’m not Jessica

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Cake day: October 30th, 2024

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  • That’s fine. I’m happy that you have a phrase that makes you happy, even if you aren’t willing to tell me what it is. I’ve known you online for a while now, and I always meant it when I compliment you. your entire vibe is really sweet and it’s been amazing to see you grow into your own and overcome a lot of the dysphoria that was keeping you from being happy. I love how much more confident and happy you seem now, even if things still aren’t perfect.

    You’ve also never been a chaser because you’ve always been one of us. Most of us could tell before you admitted it openly, ngl. You’re just so girl coded it’s precious





  • I get what you mean about not knowing what to wear. I am allergic to spending money and suck at doing things for myself, so I don’t have an extensive enough wardrobe or enough experience to know my style. I’m also a shut in, so I put things off that I really shouldn’t. I don’t really have sage advice on this one, so maybe we can seek to improve together.

    Also, if HRT is kind to you, you’ll eventually reach a point where bras are necessary with most outfits. I can’t even wear a baggy shirt to hide them anymore; I need either two layers of baggy clothing or a bra of some sort. Also, they often hurt in the early stages even without a ton of growth, and bras can prevent them touching things.