I mean, I’m a pet to a very sweet Master, who is ace, who is dating a boyfriend who is also ace. I don’t think I’ve ever heard anyone else say they have an asexual master/mistress/dominant, yet here we are. We play super rarely, but I still get off thinking about what he can do, what I’ve told him is ‘safe’, so when we are together he could just pin me down… he just usually doesn’t take the opportunity. I’m also insatiable, but I’m also demi, so I need to know someone first (decent conversation, personal details, chatting at length…), or they are involved somehow with us, in order to start to be attracted to them (‘pet, this is my friend I was telling you about…’ for example) before I start to think about banging them. If/once I hit that point though, the train ain’t stopping.
Labels can be useful for establishing a baseline, but you don’t need to confine yourself to a rigid ‘standard’. And just because you don’t feel like you conform to what is expected, doesn’t mean you are doing anything wrong or aren’t ‘valid’. Nah, anyone who says stuff like that isn’t worth your time.
Seeing as bunnies are almost always submissive… come sit on daddy’s lap, Jesus~