30 something woman here, apparently I masturbate a lot compared to my friends.
I have to say “yeah once a week too” when they raise the subject ,when in fact it is multiple times a day. Husband would also do 2 times a day if he kept to his “normal” cadence. I know “whatever works for me” is right, but I’d like to compare to other people my age that aren’t my friends.

  • CumshotCurators@fedinsfw.appOP
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    12 days ago

    I do actually, though I tend to be actually horny, usually because of porn I guess, which is very a very regular part of my routine.

    I don’t usually use toys, just fingers. With exceptions maybe once a week. I have always been multi orgasmic though, even from the age I first found my clit really. It doesn’t get sensitive unless I really abuse it lol

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      12 days ago

      You might have a bit of a feedback loop going. Your body craves dopamine and gets it from being horny so when it needs dopamine it makes you horny so you’ll go get it.

      I have adhd and i found my boy-clitoris way before my parents expected and somehow built a habit casually masturbating while playing video games before I could even physically ejaculate. So now when I’m playing a game I still get the urge to stop and jack off simply cuz of how they got associated.