I know this might sound like a strange question, but I’d like to talk about it. I recently joined a lesbian Discord server. After chatting for a while, I shared that I’m married to a man due to cultural and religious reasons. I was married at 16, and it wasn’t really my choice, so I didn’t have any prior experience with men or women. People in the server seemed to expect me to say that I hate my husband or find sex with him disgusting, but I don’t. My primary and only attraction is to women, but I can still enjoy sex with a man on a physical level. My first experience with a woman happened after I was already married, and it was actually facilitated by my husband, who is supportive and helps me connect with women discreetly since I live in a very conservative country. After I shared this, many people in the server reacted negatively and called me a “fake lesbian” or bisexual, which honestly hurt.
I mentioned ace because there was experiential overlap. But obviously OP isn’t ace. They’re into women FFS.
You can assume whatever you like. I’ve clarified my meaning.
And I told you that’s not how thay works. Then you got pissy.
How are you reading my mind, and still so wrong about what I “deliberately” meant to say?
I started off agreeing with you, and I still do. Rudely, but still.
What?
Seriously, what do you except here? You gave wrong information got corrected and are still bawling.
I expect you to stop attributing malice where none existed.
An maybe admit that “not how that works” isn’t the tactful way to point out a problem.