I know this might sound like a strange question, but I’d like to talk about it. I recently joined a lesbian Discord server. After chatting for a while, I shared that I’m married to a man due to cultural and religious reasons. I was married at 16, and it wasn’t really my choice, so I didn’t have any prior experience with men or women. People in the server seemed to expect me to say that I hate my husband or find sex with him disgusting, but I don’t. My primary and only attraction is to women, but I can still enjoy sex with a man on a physical level. My first experience with a woman happened after I was already married, and it was actually facilitated by my husband, who is supportive and helps me connect with women discreetly since I live in a very conservative country. After I shared this, many people in the server reacted negatively and called me a “fake lesbian” or bisexual, which honestly hurt.

    • AskewLord@piefed.socialEnglish
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      22 days ago

      Gold star lesbianism is this weird thing, and even people who aren’t lesbians seem drawn to the notion of sapphic purity and identity.

      I don’t get it. But then again I don’t worship lesbianism as some higher form of existence the way some people do. It seems to derive from the notion of female Chasity having spiritual significance/superiority and that maleness is ‘tainted’ or demeaning if you are touched by it. Shit’s wild.

      TERFs and all that also seem to believe in magic sacred vagina energies too, because they need them to harvest moon energy or something.