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minus-squarebaggachipz@sh.itjust.workslinkfedilinkarrow-up0·14 days ago You don’t like bush, cool, don’t sleep with someone who has one. Should this conversation happen prior to the encounter, then?
minus-squareMBech@feddit.dklinkfedilinkarrow-up0·14 days agoNothing wrong with talking about expectations prior to banging.
minus-squareViceversa@lemmy.worldlinkfedilinkarrow-up0·14 days agoIn theory - yes. But in practice it would be rude and / or ruining the moment.
minus-squarePostmortal_Pop@lemmy.worldlinkfedilinkarrow-up0·14 days agoIf the moment can be ruined by something little, it was going to be ruined to begin with.
minus-squarevelma@sh.itjust.workslinkfedilinkarrow-up0·14 days agoMuch more rude to tell a woman you don’t want to fuck her after she’s taken her clothes off.
minus-squareStinkywizzleteats@piefed.sociallinkfedilinkEnglisharrow-up0·13 days agosex is physical use body language
minus-squarevillage604@adultswim.fanlinkfedilinkEnglisharrow-up0·13 days agoWouldn’t that technically mean she’s raping you?
minus-squarevillage604@adultswim.fanlinkfedilinkEnglisharrow-up0·13 days agoIt was a tongue-in-cheek comment about people who legitimately believe that a woman has been raped if she changes her mind during, but never relays that information to the man.
minus-squarevelma@sh.itjust.workslinkfedilinkarrow-up0·13 days agoNo one was talking about that here. YOU brought up rape unprovoked. Rape isn’t funny.
minus-squarevillage604@adultswim.fanlinkfedilinkEnglisharrow-up0·13 days agoYou straight up said it’s not ok to tell a woman that you’re no longer interested in sex. Having sex when you don’t want to because you feel pressured into it is generally considered SA when it happens to a woman.
minus-squaretomiant@piefed.socialBannedlinkfedilinkEnglisharrow-up0·13 days agoHe doesn’t “owe her anything”, so…
minus-squarevelma@sh.itjust.workslinkfedilinkarrow-up0·13 days agoNever said he did. I’m saying it’s probably better to bring up such a strong preference before clothes come off.
minus-squarebaggachipz@sh.itjust.workslinkfedilinkarrow-up0·14 days ago“Oh you grew up in Phoenix? My family’s in Scottsdale. So, like, do you have pubes?”
minus-squareHAL_9_TRILLION@lemmy.dbzer0.comlinkfedilinkarrow-up0·14 days agoSorry, Scottsdale is a dealbreaker.
minus-squarerunner_g@piefed.blahaj.zonelinkfedilinkEnglisharrow-up0·13 days agoI can excuse Scottsdale but I draw the line at Cave Creek.
minus-squareVeganCheesecake@lemmy.blahaj.zonelinkfedilinkarrow-up0·13 days agoIf it’s actually a total deal breaker for you then … probably?
minus-squarebaggachipz@sh.itjust.workslinkfedilinkarrow-up0·13 days agoNah, I’ve been married for 22 years, I don’t care anymore. Actually never did.
minus-squaresurewhynotlem@lemmy.worldlinkfedilinkarrow-up0·14 days agoIf you care enough about it, yes.
Should this conversation happen prior to the encounter, then?
Nothing wrong with talking about expectations prior to banging.
In theory - yes. But in practice it would be rude and / or ruining the moment.
If the moment can be ruined by something little, it was going to be ruined to begin with.
Not at all
Much more rude to tell a woman you don’t want to fuck her after she’s taken her clothes off.
sex is physical use body language
This one got me hahah
Wouldn’t that technically mean she’s raping you?
What the fuck?
It was a tongue-in-cheek comment about people who legitimately believe that a woman has been raped if she changes her mind during, but never relays that information to the man.
No one was talking about that here. YOU brought up rape unprovoked.
Rape isn’t funny.
You straight up said it’s not ok to tell a woman that you’re no longer interested in sex.
Having sex when you don’t want to because you feel pressured into it is generally considered SA when it happens to a woman.
He doesn’t “owe her anything”, so…
Never said he did. I’m saying it’s probably better to bring up such a strong preference before clothes come off.
Weeds out the weak quickly lol
“Oh you grew up in Phoenix? My family’s in Scottsdale. So, like, do you have pubes?”
Sorry, Scottsdale is a dealbreaker.
I can excuse Scottsdale but I draw the line at Cave Creek.
If it’s actually a total deal breaker for you then … probably?
Nah, I’ve been married for 22 years, I don’t care anymore. Actually never did.
If you care enough about it, yes.